There are times when people don’t get it. Your colleagues don’t get it. Your family doesn’t get it. Complete strangers who share the same Earth with you don’t get it. Makes you angry, does it?
This blog post was inspired by a discussion with Steve from Blog Blogger Bloggest, about my previous post ‘Arrogant or hopeful?’. He expressed how angry he is about how environmentalists caused a massive increase in the amounts of CO2 by blocking the deployment of nuclear power for the past forty years, angry on people who throw away their plastic on beaches, along roadsides and in the countryside – which is how most of the plastic that ends up in the ocean gets there.
I feel him. I’ve been angry and I have said things to people. Eventually, my temper transformed into empathy. This led me to understand why we do what we do and to find ways to help people understand the issues that lead to our frustrations.
Let me tell you a short story. One day, in a grocery store, I carried some cloth bags. It was my first time using cloth bags in a self-checkout lane. It was really confusing for me and apparently also for the machine detecting the bags and the products. I was OK with the confusion because that was my first time. However, there was someone with me who got mad at me for fussing over plastic bags. I got mad because someone did not take my efforts seriously. I was mad because I would have appreciated the patience. It is also frustrating that the systems we operate do not make it easy for us to do the right thing.
I think I understand why I lost my ability to get angry. Not that I’ve lost it completely but it has subdued. Angry seems anti-human and anti-system to me now. But somewhere deep inside, this conversation made me realize that perhaps the rage made me into who I am today. This is not to justify that I want it back. You don’t necessarily have to go back to the old ways. You can, however, measure the impact of the methods you adopt. I can measure the effect my anger has had, by looking at the people I got angry at in the past. Have they changed? How much have they changed? Has my relationship with them changed? Some have changed, some haven’t. I can’t measure that for strangers, but I can only hope that my expression has added to the momentum.
I’ve come to learn that there is no single form of activism. There are in fact many! You can influence people in so many ways and not just by being angry on them. Volunteer, sign a petition, boycott products, invest ethically, be an active part of the system that needs change. Create a hashtag or something. Create your own way. Use existing tools or create new ones. Make them see.
When I do speak out now, I speak out in various ways. It doesn’t have to be one way. It doesn’t have to be my way or someone’s else’s. It may not be the right way, so it helps to look back at the ways you adopt and measure the impact they have had. Do you need to change? How much has it changed you?
I’d also read: 12 different types of activism
I love to hear from my readers, and I thank Steve for joining the discussion. He writes awesome thought-provoking articles. That’s how we learn from each other. Join the conversation!
4 thoughts on “When people don’t get it is speaking out the best form of activism?”
Hi Anuja. Glad to know that you have reached the empathy phase in your life. I am trying to transform my angry phase into empathy like u inorder to have a positive impact in society.
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I hope you find your own way. It’s a learning process. Every day I learn things and that changes the way I think, the way I act, and also the way I react. I don’t think anger is necessarily bad, it is an expression, like any other expressions, but I do care about what kind of impact it can have, it might or might not help. I’m trying to figure that out myself too.
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Hi Anuja! Thank you for your kind words about my writing. If you met me you wouldn’t think I was an angry person. I don’t want you to think I go around shouting at people. I don’t. I try not to get angry. I know it’s not good for me. But everyone gets angry sometimes. In fact, I get angry quite a lot of the time. I hold strong opinions. I’m a judgemental person (it’s part of my Jung personality type). I’m a type-1 sort of person. In truth I’m an ANGRY person :) It’s what drives my writing. My fiction writing (I’m now a full-time writer) is a passive-aggressive exercise that helps to lower my blood pressure. Sometimes I write comments that are designed to be provocative (you may have noticed.) I don’t like to make bland statements. I like to write comments on your blog, because you took the time to write articles and it seems rude not to. I like to stir debate and not simply agree with people. I am always honest. But sometimes my comments come across as rude. They are never intended to be. I thought about my ANGRY comment on your blog. I realized afterwards that it may leave you thinking I was some kind of angry nutcase. I’m pleased you found it stimulating. If you don’t mind I will continue to leave comments on your blog. Some of them may be provocative. A few may be ANGRY :) They will all be honest and well-intentioned.
Haha Steve, I didn’t think of your comments in any other way than stimulating, well intentioned and honest. I always look forward to your comments for it and you are always welcome. I get angry too but I used to be a nutcase is what I was saying, not you. 😁 Here’s an example: https://anujasawant.com/2016/05/17/i-once-yelled-at-a-teacher-for-throwing-trash-out-of-the-train/